How to Tell When Your Child Needs a Tutor

November 28, 2016 Student Life68

There can be any number of reasons a student needs a tutor. Maybe they don’t understand a specific subject or just need a little extra help across all their classes. They could be studying for a big test, or just want to stay ahead of their classroom lessons. Whatever the reason, it’s important to pay attention to what your child is showing you. By noticing important trends, parents can better understand what their child is dealing with and offer the correct resources needed to improve their grades.

Slipping Grades

Often the first sign that a student is struggling in the classroom is a sudden drop in their grades. Perhaps they had excellent grades when they were younger, or they always did well in a particular subject until now. A change in their grades can be a significant sign that they are struggling and could use some extra help to stay afloat. As courses become more advanced, students must adjust to harder material and their grades can end up slipping as a result. If a child is constantly receiving poor grades, parents can see this as proof that they are in need of additional help from you or a tutor.

Before calling for a tutor, it is a good idea to do your own homework, so to speak. Contact your child’s teacher to gather more specific details and any additional information about their issues. It’s possible they have noticed that your child is struggling with a certain subject or not grasping a specific concept. Maybe they find memorizing math formulas to be difficult, or are having trouble with reading comprehension. Your child won’t always be open to sharing about their frustration. They might not even know what’s wrong. It is a teacher’s job to identify and react to a child’s specific needs, so they will welcome the assistance of a parent.

Your child’s problem could come down to a need for more guidance. When it comes to studying, the best way to evaluate the process is to understand the results. Many times students can put in hours of effort of studying just to see it end in failure and disappointment. If you have determined that your child is putting in the proper effort and they are still getting bad grades, it could be a matter of studying incorrectly. A tutor can help your child reevaluate the way they study and help them create goals and processes that will lead to success on the next test.

If it is determined that your child isn’t struggling with any particular subject in school, your teacher might have the answers after observing their behavior in the classroom. Sometimes a change in behavior can lead to a drop in grades. Maybe your child isn’t paying attention in class, or doesn’t take it as seriously as they used to. A lack in interest can come down to the teacher’s inability to engage with your child. Bringing in a tutor with a different perspective can help your child discover an interest in school they didn’t think existed before. The more they are interested, the more they will care, and the better chance they have of getting good grades.

Poor Time Management

An inability to balance school assignments is an important indicator that your child needs a tutor. If it takes a surprisingly long time for them to finish their homework assignments, it could mean that they are overwhelmed by what they are studying and are unable to get a firm grasp on the subject matter. Many times children are involved in too many extracurricular activities to even devote enough time to their homework. Time management can be difficult for children who are swept away in an endless parade of after-school events, and it can eventually have an adverse effect on their grades.

Sometimes poor time management can turn into an inability to meet deadlines. There exists a normal amount of procrastination for any child learning how to evaluate their responsibilities. However, spending too much time avoiding assignments is a sign your child cannot handle their work; they push them off until the last possible minute, instead of doing them in a timely manner. If they are actively avoiding their homework, it may be time to look into the reason why.

Talk to your child about and why they are unable to stick to a strict schedule. If it is deemed necessary, a tutor can help with school assignments and keep your children on a consistent homework schedule.

More Stress and Anxiety

A child who continuously struggles with their schoolwork will become increasingly more stressed as their frustration grows. If homework sessions turn into meltdowns, it’s a sign that they are unable to understand their assignment and have no other way to express their unhappiness. Stress can also lead to a lack of motivation to study, which can take a toll on a child’s academic career. If your child often tells you they hate school or is noticeably stressed over the work they have to do each night, it could be time to call in a tutor.

It’s also important to keep in mind that kids with low self-esteem are more likely to feel the effects of stress and anxiety. They are less likely to ask for help, so it can be hard to provide them with what they need if you aren’t paying attention. This becomes a vicious cycle as the student falls further behind and makes it harder to catch up on homework, all the while stress levels continue to rise and anxiety continues to grow.

The right tutor will be able to help your child understand the concepts they can’t grasp and turn frustration into understanding. With a better understanding of their schoolwork, stress decreases, and learning becomes a priority again.